Let’s go!
“Leap and the net will appear.” – John Burroughs
I recently decided to make a couple big investments in myself and my business. This year I’m deciding to put myself out there in bigger ways so I can reach more people and support them in their growth, in seeing what’s possible for themselves, in believing in themselves, and in achieving what they want – all while consistently caring for themselves.
By doing this, I too am seeing what’s possible for myself, stretching myself past who I already am and becoming an expanded version of myself. I want to see who I can become through this process. I know that no matter what the outcome, I will grow from going through this process.
And maybe that’s the whole point of having goals. Not only to achieve the goal, but to see who we can become by working towards the goal. In working towards the goal, we will be strengthening our belief in ourselves, we might be taking actions we’ve never taken before, and we might be feeling the discomfort of doing these new things, these hard things.
Then it doesn’t matter so much if we actually achieve the goal or not. Because we still get to be the person we’ve become from the effort we’ve exerted. That part doesn’t go away. That growth becomes part of us. We can take this version of ourselves to the next thing, and the next.
So I’m investing in myself. I’m betting on myself. I’m putting myself out there and taking on new opportunities, saying yes to things, and most importantly, believing in myself to make it all work out. To have my back, to make aligned decisions, to trust in myself, and to expand my capacity. And so I’m also creating the net with the belief I have in myself.
I could have just stayed in my current situation and not taken the leap. My current situation is “safe” and familiar, but it doesn’t require more of me. Now, I get to rise up to a level I haven’t been at before.
And that requires a lot of me – growth-wise and creativity-wise. And I’m up for the challenge. I’m willing to be a little scared and uncomfortable for a while, I’m willing to see what’s possible. I’m willing to go all-in on myself and to bet on ME. It might not always be easy and fun, and that’s OK. I trust myself to come through for me.
How do we make sure we take the actions needed to support ourselves? We create the feelings we need to fuel those actions. How do we create the feelings? We think the thoughts that create those feelings.
Right now, I’m thinking “I’m going all-in on myself. I believe in what I have to offer. I’ll do what I need to do – and even have fun while doing it! Let’s see what happens.” And all those thoughts create the feelings: determined, focused, excited, curious, confident, motivated, playful. And I’ll take actions based on those feelings.
Investing in ourselves is caring for ourselves, and also caring for our future selves. Our future selves will be so grateful for the work we’re doing now.
Your turn: What do you want for yourself that you’re willing to go all-in on and bet on yourself to make happen? What would you need to think and believe? What would you need to feel? And what actions would you take (or not take) to get the result you want? Who will you become along the way?
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