Create vs. Consume

What do you create?

We all consume many things – the news, social media posts, streaming shows, movies, podcasts, books, articles, emails, food, drinks, learning courses, material items like clothing, etc. 

What I’ve learned through my life coach school is the importance of CREATING from what we consume. And to balance, as much as possible, what we consume with what we create in our lives.

For example, when I listen to (consume) podcasts, sometimes I get great ideas for content that I want to write about. Or I hear a great life hack that I implement into my life. Or I hear about a concept or idea I want to talk about with a friend. 

We can count these as creating! Literally, creating new content when I write about an idea. But also, implementing the life hack into my life is creating, and talking to a friend about an interesting concept is creating – I’m doing something new with the information I consume. 

It’s similar when we watch a show or movie and want to talk about it with someone – we’re creating a conversation and processing ideas we’ve consumed. Or when we read a book to join a book club and dive deeper into the ideas with others. Or when a social issue we see on the news or on social media moves us to take action. 

All of this can be considered creating and we can do this with almost any type of media we consume. And some people may be moved to create actual art when they consume media – but we don’t have to be artists to create something to share with others, though we do see a lot of wonderful art on social media and elsewhere by people who’ve created it!

This isn’t to say that with EVERYthing we consume, we need to create something as well. But we can start to become aware of how we’re consuming and whether or not we’re creating – or wanting to create – from what we consume.

We can become imbalanced in consuming if all we’re doing is collecting data points and not necessarily doing anything with them. We can also overwhelm and exhaust ourselves with information this way – along with consuming other THINGS as well. What happens when we over-consume food, alcohol, or material items? We may unintentionally create unhealthy bodies and environments for ourselves.

Part of self-care is intentionally creating healthy environments for ourselves. We want to be mindful about what we put into these environments and about what we consume. If we don’t like the way we feel after reading, watching, listening to, eating/drinking, or buying something, we can just notice that. 

If it’s something we have a direct choice to NOT read, watch, listen to, eat/drink, or buy, we can inquire with ourselves about whether we want to do that again or keep doing it. We can start to be more aware and intentional about what we’re consuming and whether or not we’re creating what we want in our lives. 

Your turn: What do you value consuming? Why do you value it? What do you want to create more of in your life? What can you create for yourself through some of the things you consume? 

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Do for love

Count the ways.

A couple months ago, I finished reading a book that’s been on my to-read list for several years. The way this usually happens for me is that I’ll have a book on my to-read list for a few years and then within days or weeks, multiple people from different spheres of my life mention to me that they’re reading it. So I take that as a sign to bump it up on my list and read it ASAP! 

That’s what I did with this book, called You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay.

Louise shares her philosophies on life and ourselves, along with ailments that can happen to us related to our energetic engagement with life via our thoughts and beliefs – usually when they’re out of alignment with who we are. 

She also shares some writing, speaking, and visualization exercises to engage with and inquire more deeply into our beliefs about ourselves. I’d like to share one of the exercises I did because it was powerful and empowering, along with the instructions below so you can do it as well, if you’d like.

Take a piece of paper and finish writing this sentence in as many ways as you can, at least 10 times, with 20 times being even more beneficial: “I love myself, therefore I . . .”

I love myself, therefore I allow myself to go to bed when I feel tired.

I love myself, therefore I stay hydrated during the day.

I love myself, therefore I regularly do things that bring me joy.

I love myself, therefore I listen to my body.

I love myself, therefore I get a massage every three weeks.

I love myself, therefore I do what I say I’m going to do – my words and actions match.

I love myself, therefore I eat healthy, well-proportioned meals.

I love myself, therefore I move my body daily in ways that feel good to me.

I love myself, therefore I nurture relationships that are important to me.

I love myself, therefore I tell myself the truth about myself and my life.

I love myself, therefore I keep commitments to myself.

I love myself, therefore I trust myself.

I love myself, therefore I spend time with friends that love and support me.

I love myself, therefore I share myself openly with others.

I love myself, therefore I know when to let go of something that doesn’t serve me, even if it’s very hard to do.

I love myself, therefore I keep going even when it feels easier to give up.

I love myself, therefore I don’t conflate anyone’s words or actions towards me with my worthiness or value.

I love myself, therefore I allow myself to disappoint others before disappointing myself.

I love myself, therefore I choose to do (the right) hard things.

I love myself, therefore I no longer abandon myself through unhealthy choices.

I love myself, therefore I tell myself so (that I love myself) multiple times a day.

The start to a well-known poem comes to mind: “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. . .” – Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Your turn: Are you open to trying this exercise for yourself? Take a piece of paper and finish writing this sentence in as many ways as you can, at least 10 times, with 20 times being even more beneficial: “I love myself, therefore I . . .”

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Work with me: Want to see how self-care is transformative and can help you create the results you want in your life? I can show you how. I offer first-time seekers a complimentary 45-minute exploratory session. Sign up here.

What’s on your mind? It can be powerful to learn from each other and our common struggles when it comes to our practice of self-care–or just being a human being. If you have something you’re struggling with and would like some perspective, share it here. Your issue may be chosen and addressed in the next post–it’ll be totally anonymous.